How does LOVE happen?

I am sure that you have had this question in your mind at one or the other points of your life. If not, you will have it right now as you continue reading this blog. Life is filled with so many emotions and feelings but no doubt that LOVE takes the highest priority among all these. Love is the feeling that bonds any relationship stronger. However in this blog I would love to dwelve into the topic of love that happens between two human beings which is not related to any blood-line, probably that tingling feeling that you have in your stomach when you catch a sight of the special someone.

Movies have glamourised this love to an extent that the same concept of love keeps taking different forms in every new movie and they are afraid to showcase the same type of love which has become very stereotypical. No doubt that many of us are influenced with movies and most of us end up our conclusions based on such movie-type of love. Does love happen when a boy sees a beautiful girl in the bus stand? So was it beauty that attracted love! Does love happen when a girl sees a brave boy fighting off the goons? Was it the bravery and fighting skills that attracted love! Does love happen when a colleague helps out the other in office work? Helping selected colleagues lead to love! Does love happen when a girl is impressed with singing/dancing/speaking or any other skills of the boy? So, special extra-curricular skills were the reason for the birth of love! Does love happen when people are married through a arranged marriage? If you don't love after marriage there is no other option, right! Does love happen when a guy satisfies every desire of a girl? Fulfilling desires was the way to love! Does love happen when the person goes to the extent of sacrificing life for the sake of love? Sacrificing life for love, impressive but is it practical?

Probably this is one of the very few blogs where I am not conveying any message of mine. These are some of the questions that keep running on my mind and I am damn sure that many of you also have this in mind. Love is a feeling that everyone desires to feel at the earliest point in life but the only issue is that not even a single person knows as to how love happens. All the best to you if you are awaiting for such a experience. You can wish me as well on

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BEAUTY

First of all, all your other work should be kept in abeyance before reading this article. May be what i write may seem aberrant to you at first but later you will realise it's aesthetic value. In this world, where adulterated commodities rule the market leading to abstemious diets and more some people still find a way of enjoying life with what is available waiting and protesting for the negative perspective to abate. The intention of looking only at the negative face of everything needs to be admonished in order to ameliorate the extent of satisfaction in life. Develop an antipathy towards the attitude of spotting negative aspects of anomalous events. Negative thoughts disturbing the mind are analogous to anarchy in the country.

 

Though mention of flying vehicles in Mahabharatha may seem anachronistic to some people , it was a thought provoking idea for some scientific minds. This is the beauty of recognising the advantageous aspect of something. Its because of ambivalent people who make ambiguous decisions due to their lack of understanding that many problems arise. Still there is a chance of amalgamating all the positive aspects of a product to alleviate its performance and provide customer satisfaction. This is what i call as the beauty of optimism. People with alacrity appreciate the good aspects of everything & will surely aggregate more of happiness in life than the rest. Though it is not possible to completely abscond from the hurtful truths of life, people should make an attempt to reach the postive side of things. This is what beauty is all about more than physical one. This is the attitude that will make everyone's life

BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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